It just plain sucks. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. Most of my female friends work and their husbands don't work weekends so it is hard to have people to hang with. We are talking about kids and I know it will all fall to me. Since I interpreted remotely via video, I got most of the routine cases: I can interpret those kinds of check ups in my sleep. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church.
I also know that whenever exceptions are made, there are reasons. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. What can you expect. Get used to it. As a matter of fact, you can begin here.
I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Best of luck, and God bless. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward.
I'm going to disagree with what some of the people have said. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. She is passionate about it. Should I marry him. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. At parties, they drink soda and play board games. For example,is it reasonable to expect sex 1x a week.
